Improve Marital Satisfaction with Mindfulness

By John M. de Castro, Ph.D.

 

“We are vulnerable creatures, we humans. In the act of exposing our heart and hopes, we also expose our fears and fragility. But we need not be slaves to the past, or to the external love object, be it bear or spouse. We can deliberately develop a more secure sense of attachment, training our mind to become a place of security, safety, and warm fuzzy reassurance simply by paying attention to now, not then.” – Cheryl Fraser

 

Infertility, the inability to become pregnant, is primarily a medical condition and due to physiological problems, most frequently, hormonal inadequacy. The diagnosis of infertility involves documenting a failure to become pregnant despite having carefully timed, unprotected sex for at least one year. Sadly, infertility is quite common. It is estimated that in the U.S. 6.7 million women, about 10% of the population of women 15-44, have an impaired ability to get pregnant or carry a baby to term and about 6% are infertile.

 

Infertility can be more than just a medical issue. It can be an emotional crisis for many couples, especially for the women. Couples attending a fertility clinic reported that infertility was the most upsetting experience of their lives. Women with infertility reported feeling as anxious or depressed as those diagnosed with cancer, hypertension, or recovering from a heart attack. Men’s reactions are more complicated. If the reason for the infertility is due to an issue with the woman, then men aren’t as distressed as the women. But if they are the ones who are infertile, they experience the same levels of low self-esteem, stigma, and depression as infertile women do. In addition, infertility can markedly impact the couple’s relationship, straining their emotional connection and interactions and the prescribed treatments can take the spontaneity and joy from lovemaking making it strained and mechanical.

 

The stress of infertility and engaging in infertility treatments may exacerbate the problem. These issues conspire to stress the marital relationship and interfere with the emotional health of the individuals. In today’s Research News article “The Effectiveness of Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Group Therapy on Marital Satisfaction and General Health in Woman with Infertility.” See:

https://www.facebook.com/ContemplativeStudiesCenter/photos/a.628903887133541.1073741828.627681673922429/1253726174651306/?type=3&theater

or below or view the full text of the study at:

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4803966/

Shargh and colleagues randomly assigned women diagnosed with infertility to a group receiving Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT) or a control group. They measured the marital satisfaction and emotional health of the women prior to and after an 8-week MBCT program presented in a group format or care as usual. They found that the MBCT program produced a significant increase in marital satisfaction, including communications, conflict resolution and ideal deviation, and a significant increase in emotional health including lower bodily complaints, anxiety, depression and social malfunction.

 

These results are potentially important as infertility places intense stress on marital relationships. The results seem reasonable, though, given the documented effectiveness of mindfulness training to relieve stress, anxiety, and depression, and improve social function and romantic relationships. It is important, however, to demonstrate that mindfulness training is similarly effective with women with infertility issues. This can have other positive consequences as there are indications that the relief produced by mindfulness training may improve the likelihood of these women successfully conceiving. It is also encouraging that these results can be obtained when MBCT is delivered in a group format. This makes it more efficient and cost effective.

 

So, improve marital satisfaction in couples struggling with infertility with mindfulness.

 

CMCS – Center for Mindfulness and Contemplative Studies

 

“Each of us has a different set of sexual experiences and needs. When we feel disconnected from pleasure, simply bringing non-judgmental awareness to our bodies can help us clear away the baggage of cultural narratives. And in doing so, we can uncover our own unique sexual story and gain compassion for ourselves, wherever we are at in our sexual journey.” – Pam Costa

 

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Study Summary

 

Shargh, N. A., Bakhshani, N. M., Mohebbi, M. D., Mahmudian, K., Ahovan, M., Mokhtari, M., & Gangali, A. (2016). The Effectiveness of Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Group Therapy on Marital Satisfaction and General Health in Woman with Infertility. Global Journal of Health Science, 8(3), 230–235. http://doi.org/10.5539/gjhs.v8n3p230

 

Abstract

Infertility affects around 80 million people around the world and it has been estimated that psychological problems in infertile couples is within the range of 25-60%. The purpose of this study was to determine the effectiveness of Mindfulness-based cognitive group therapy on consciousness regarding marital satisfaction and general health in woman with infertility. Recent work is a clinical trial with a pre/posttest plan for control group. Covering 60 women who were selected by in access method and arranged randomly in interference (30) and control (30) groups. Before and after implementation of independent variable, all subjects were measured in both groups using Enrich questionnaire and marital satisfaction questionnaire. Results of covariance analysis of posttest, after controlling the scores of pretest illustrated the meaningful difference of marital satisfaction and mental health scores in interference and control groups after treatment and the fact that MBCT treatment in infertile women revealed that this method has an appropriate contribution to improvement of marital satisfaction and mental health. Necessary trainings for infertile people through consultation services can improve their mental health and marital satisfaction and significantly help reducing infertile couples’ problems.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4803966/

 

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