Reduce Grief with Mindfulness

Reduce Grief with Mindfulness


By John M. de Castro, Ph.D.


Releasing the grief we carry is a long, tear-filled process. Yet it follows the natural intelligence of the body and heart. Trust it, trust the unfolding. Along with meditation, some of your grief will want to be written, to be cried out, to be sung, to be danced. Let the timeless wisdom within you carry you through grief to an open heart.” – Jack Kornfield


Grief is a normal, albeit complex, process that follows a loss of a significant person or situation in one’s life. This can involve the death of a loved one, a traumatic experience, termination of a relationship, loss of employment etc. Exactly what transpires depends upon the individual and the nature of the loss. It involves physical, emotional, psychological and cognitive processes. Not everyone grieves in the same way but there have been identified four general stages of grief, shock and denial, intense concern, despair and depression, and recovery. These are normal and healthy. But, in about 15% of people grief can be overly intense or long and therapeutic intervention may become necessary.


A stillbirth can be a devastating loss as the joyous anticipation of a new baby is replaced by a death. This can produce intense mental challenges. Mindfulness training is known to help with coping with emotions and stress, and is very effective for depression. Hence, mindfulness training may be helpful in coping with the grief following a stillbirth. In today’s Research News article “Mindfulness-based Intervention for Perinatal Grief Education and Reduction among Poor Women in Chhattisgarh, India: a Pilot Study.” See summary below or view the full text of the study at:

Roberts and Montgomery recruited women, aged 18 to 35 years, in rural India who had a history of stillbirth. They provided them with a one session per week for 5-weeks of mindfulness training based upon Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR). This included meditation, body scanning, and yoga practices and had additional education materials on risk factors for stillbirth and prevention strategies. The women were measured before and after the intervention and 6-weeks later for grief, anxiety and depression symptoms, satisfaction with life, religious coping, social support, and mindfulness. During the 6-week follow up period the women practiced daily at home.


They found, not surprisingly, that at baseline the women had clinically significant levels of anxiety, depression, and grief. After the mindfulness training, there were significant improvements in grief, anxiety and depression, religious coping, and the mindfulness facets of describe and acting with awareness. Hence the mindfulness training appeared to increase mindfulness and help relieve some of the psychological consequences of having a stillbirth. This could be important as the grief and depression after stillbirth can be severe. Relieving these consequences may be very helpful to the women learning to cope with and move past their tragic loss.


These are encouraging results, but must be viewed as preliminary pilot data. There was no control condition so, there are a large number of possible other explanations for the results including placebo effects, attentional effects, experimenter bias, etc. The data do support, however, conducting a larger randomize controlled clinical trial. Such research could lead to mindfulness training being used to assist in coping with loss and grief.


So, reduce grief with mindfulness.


“Mindful grieving informs us to allow ourselves to feel what is there, without judgment. For me, there was sadness there and I needed to nonjudgmentally acknowledge it, feel it, and let it be. It was important in that moment that I didn’t resist it or strive to make it any different, but just feel it as it was. Ronald Pies, M.D. wrote to us, “Having problems means being alive”, and I’d add “Being alive, means grieving loved ones who pass.” Grief is a natural part of the human experience.” – Elisha Goldstein


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Study Summary

Roberts, L., & Montgomery, S. (2016). Mindfulness-based Intervention for Perinatal Grief Education and Reduction among Poor Women in Chhattisgarh, India: a Pilot Study. Interdisciplinary Journal of Best Practices in Global Development, 2(1), 1.




Stillbirth is a significant public health problem in low-to-middle-income countries and results in perinatal grief, often with negative psychosocial impact. In low-resource settings, such as Chhattisgarh, India, where needs are high, it is imperative to utilize low-cost, effective interventions. Mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR) is an empirically sound intervention that has been utilized for a broad range of physical and mental health problems, and is adaptable to specific populations. The main objective of this pilot study was to explore the feasibility and effectiveness of a shortened, culturally adapted mindfulness-based intervention to address complex grief after stillbirth.


We used an observational, pre-post-6-week post study design. The study instrument was made up of descriptive demographic questions and validated scales and was administered as a structured interview due to low literacy rates. We used a community participatory approach to culturally adapt the five-week mindfulness-based intervention and delivered it through two trained local nurses. Quantitative and qualitative data analyses explored study outcomes as well as acceptability and feasibility of the intervention.


29 women with a history of stillbirth enrolled, completed the pretest and began the intervention; 26 completed the five-week intervention and post-test (89.7%), and 23 completed the six-week follow-up assessment (88.5%). Pretest results included elevated psychological symptoms and high levels of perinatal grief, including the active grief, difficulty coping, and despair subscales. General linear modeling repeated measures was used to explore posttest and six-week follow up changes from baseline, controlling for significantly correlated demographic variables. These longitudinal results included significant reduction in psychological symptoms; four of the five facets of mindfulness changed in the desired direction, two significantly; as well as significant reduction in overall perinatal grief and on each of the three subscales.


The shortened, culturally adapted, mindfulness-based intervention pilot study was well received and had very low attrition. We also found significant reductions of perinatal grief and mental health symptoms over time, as well as a high degree of practice of mindfulness skills by participants. This study not only sheds light on the tremendous mental health needs among rural women of various castes who have experienced stillbirth in Chhattisgarh, it also points to a promising effective intervention with potential to be taken to scale for wider delivery.