Control Your Emotions with Mindfulness
By John M. de Castro, Ph.D.
“Feelings are often labelled as positive (happy, confident, joyful, brave, etc) or negative (sad, scared, hurt, angry etc). In mindfulness practice, feelings are not good or bad; they just are what they are – emotions that might be comfortable or uncomfortable, easy or difficult.” – Living Well
Mindfulness practice has been shown to produce improved emotion regulation. Practitioners demonstrate the ability to fully sense and experience emotions, but respond to them in more appropriate and adaptive ways. In other words, mindful people are better able to experience yet control emotions. This is a very important consequence of mindfulness. Humans are very emotional creatures and these emotions can be very pleasant, providing the spice of life. But, when they get extreme they can produce misery and even mental illness. The ability of mindfulness training to improve emotion regulation is thought to be the basis for a wide variety of benefits that mindfulness provides to mental health and the treatment of mental illness especially depression and anxiety disorders.
There is a widespread problem in the west that many people don’t seem to like themselves. The self-dislike sometimes means that the individual dislikes every aspect of themselves; but most frequently people only don’t like certain aspects of themselves. Often it is there physical appearance, their school achievement, their career, their social behavior, etc. Making matters worse, they tend to overlook their strengths and discount them, focusing instead in the parts that they find problematic. This self-dislike is characteristic of depression. The antidote to self-dislike is self-compassion. Self-compassion is “treating oneself with kindness and understanding when facing suffering, seeing one’s failures as part of the human condition, and having a balanced awareness of painful thoughts and emotions” – Kristin Neff. Self-compassion has been demonstrated to be associated with better mental health.
Mindfulness and self-compassion are highly related and both are associated with better physical and mental health. But, it is not known which or both may be responsible for the benefits. In today’s Research News article “Mindfulness and Self-compassion as Unique and Common Predictors of Affect in the General Population.” See:
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5107192/
López and colleagues examine the relative effectiveness of mindfulness and self-compassion to influence depression and both positive and negative emotions. They recruited a large representative national sample (the Netherlands), aged 20 to 96. They completed scales measuring five aspects of mindfulness, observe, describe, act with awareness, non-judgement and non-reactivity; two aspects of self-compassion, positive self-compassion (i.e., self-kindness, common humanity, and mindfulness) and negative self-compassion (i.e., self-judgment, isolation and over-identification); depression; and positive and negative emotions. They then applied a sophisticated statistical technique, multiple regression analysis, to explore which aspects of mindfulness and self-compassion predicted depression and emotions.
They found that the higher the levels of the mindfulness facets of act with awareness and non-judgement and the lower the levels of negative self-compassion, the lower the levels of depression and negative emotions, while the higher the levels the mindfulness facets of describe and non-reactivity and positive self-compassion, the higher the levels of positive emotions. When the combined effects of mindfulness and self-compassion were looked at, they equally predicted depression and negative emotions, but only mindfulness predicted positive emotions.
These are interesting results that suggest that mindfulness is associated with lower depression and negative emotions and higher positive emotions, in other words, improved mood and mental health. On the other hand, the results suggest that a harsh negative view of oneself (negative self-compassion) contributes to depression and negative feelings. An inference from these results is that improving mindfulness and self-like may importantly contribute to the mood and mental health of the general population. It remains for future research to determine if actively training mindfulness and self-liking will have these benefits.
So, control your emotions with mindfulness.
“The skills involved in emotion regulation may be fostered by becoming aware of emotions and by learning how to manage them without pushing them away or getting tangled up in them. Emotions are not static. Therefore, to train in the skills of emotion awareness, identification, and management, it is useful to practice noticing them “on the spot.” Mindfulness is the practice of purposeful attention without judgment. Mindfulness meditation is simply the practice of being aware of present-moment experience without trying to push it away or over-engage. Mindfulness helps train the mind to pay attention and notice, so that action can be taken with greater reflection.” – Learning to Breathe
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Study Summary
López, A., Sanderman, R., & Schroevers, M. J. (2016). Mindfulness and Self-compassion as Unique and Common Predictors of Affect in the General Population. Mindfulness, 7(6), 1289–1296. http://doi.org/10.1007/s12671-016-0568-y
Abstract
In contrast to the increased research interest in the benefits of mindfulness and self-compassion, relatively few studies have examined their unique and combined effects in predicting affect. This cross-sectional study examined the predictive value of mindfulness and self-compassion for depressive symptoms, negative affect, and positive affect in a large representative sample of community adults (N = 1736). The Five Facets of Mindfulness Questionnaire (FFMQ) was used as a measure of mindfulness and the Self-Compassion Scale (SCS) as a measure of self-compassion. Five FFMQ facets were explored: observe, describe, act with awareness, non-judgment, and non-reactivity. Two SCS facets were explored: its positive items (SCS Pos) and its negative items (SCS Neg). When simultaneously examining all seven facets of mindfulness and self-compassion, three of the five FFMQ facets and SCS Neg significantly predicted both depressive symptoms and negative affect, with SCS Neg and act with awareness being the strongest predictors. These findings suggest that a harsh attitude towards oneself and a lack of attention when acting have the greatest value in predicting the presence of psychological symptoms. With respect to positive affect, four of the five FFMQ facets (except non-judgment) were significant predictors, with no unique predictive value of the two SCS’s facets, suggesting that mindfulness is a more important predictor of positive affect than self-compassion, as measured by the FFMQ and SCS.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5107192/